The Art of Climaxing a Woman

First off I must say I will not pretend to be some kind of sexpert but I will say that I have grown to appreciat the gift of giving! As a boy I never really cared about my partner and if she got a NUT or not, as long as I got mine. Anyway as I got older and started experiencing different things that opened up my mind such as: I dated this older woman, she was about 15 to 20 years older than me, anyway she showed me things that would change my life. Although or intamacy was not strictly sexual she gave me the wisdom I would need later in life to please a woman. She said to me, "look baby in order for you to truly know a woman and to know what she like, you have to think just like them, that is in and out of the bedroom". I took that advice to heart and it has followed me ever since. I started reading womens books and shit, fucking looking at Lifetime, read all of the fucking magazines like Cosmo, Glamour, Essence, Ebony, just to name a few. Ok with all that said this is what I have learned and I live by it!!

1. It is not all about you: In order to get a women to her peak you have to be willing to sacrifice, hell it will pay off in the end because if you can give her that climaxx she will definitely return the favor, actually there have been times with me that I have nutted just from giving oral to my Ex, but you have to be on that level.

2. Seek the scream: By seeking a scream from your woman you are sure to keep going, whether it's missionary position, doggie, or if she is riding you. The thing to remember is you have to move, while she is riding you grab her ass and spread her cheeks apart while moving your body around in a circular motion, just because she is riding does not mean you should not move.

3. Working with what You have: I must say that my DICK is not mandingo size, by no means am I LEX STEELE or some shit however I know how to use what I got. I read that its all about the illusion during sex and this is true, shile you are being rode grad them NIPPLES, rub them, caress them, SMACK THAT ASS while you are hitting it from the back, see women are very sensative creatures the more tools that you use on different places the better reaction you are sure to get.

4. Getting her primed: This should have been number one but anyway the actions done before sex can mean the most. My SUGA MOMMA let me bathe her, she loved it showed me the right way to bathe a women, see it is all about the affection and then the errection. After the bathing process go straight into the massage and hot oil treatment, making sure to touch EVERY PART OF HER FUCKING BODY, pay attention this is the important part: AS YOU RUB HER BODY TAKE NOTICE TO THE PARTS THAT SHE GIVES GOOD REACTION TO, LISTEN FOR THE MOANS WHEN YOU TOUCH CERTAIN PARTS CAUSE THOSE ARE THEM SPOTS THAT YOU SHOULD PUT THE MOST FOCUS ON!! Kiss those spots, rub them gently, show her that you paid attention.

5. The Art of ORAL: Oral is definitely a pleasure that everyone should not get! You have to be on that level together in order for it to really work, anyone can give oral but to do it right there is an art to it. Ok so the thing to remember is don't just go straight into it, you have to make her anticipate your arrival, spend some time SUCKING her NIPPLE, kiss her BELLY BUTTON, suck on her NECK, LICK the small of her BACK, kiss her from her forhead on down, now she is ready! SLIDE and GUIDE your tongue down her stomach to her INNER THIGH, tease her, just as she arches up off the bed BAMM STICK YOUR TONGUE RIGHT INTO HER WETNESS, kiss her CLIT very slow, with passion, let her know that you enjoy her taste. Don't SUCK or LICK to hard because that can become unenjoyable for her, THE PUSSY is very delicate and must be treated as such...once you feel her CLIT throbbing in your mouth LOOKOUT and GET READY cause she is about to FUCKIN EXPLODE...LISTEN FOR THE MOANS>>>THE OH GOD YES>>>THE SCREAMS>>>SHE IS CLIMAXXING...after that go up there and kiss her and let her know how good she taste!!

I must say that all this is just what I like, it works for me...hey but maybe you need to find your own way. But for the ladies do not be affraid to voice your likes and dis-likes, let your guy know what turns you on...what spots you liked kissed and how you like for them to be kissed...oh yeah i have one more for them hard core sexual folks!!

6. The Ruff Sex: Now for those women that enjoy ruff sex brothers would probably think it is hard to get a climaxx out of them, however that is false. The thing to remember is that it is RUFF SEX so give it to her ruff. SQUEEZE THAT ASS, SLAP THAT ASS, PULL HER HAIR, FUCK HER UP AGAINST THE WALL, BREAK SOME SHIT, MAKE HER HEAD BOUNCE OFF THE HEADBOARD, FUCKIN SUCK ALL THE JUICES OUT HER SHIT WITH A STRAW, CHOKE HER TO THE POINT SHE IS ABOUT TO PASS OUT, GIVE HER CARPET BURNS, AND YOU ARE GURAN-DAMN-TEED TO GET HER TO GO TO THE HOLYSHITIAMABOUTTOHAVETHEBESTORGASMEVER PHASE!!!

Peace...Irv out!

P.S. this is for my friend that have never reached her full potential!